* Overcoming evil with good is not about putting yourself in vulnerable situations. It's about being in control and knowing your own limitations, as to how far you can go to live peaceably with your enemy- practicality and common sense.
Romans 12:17-21 Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord. Therefore "if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head." Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
"if it is possible, as much as depends on you," - keep that in mind. The word of God is more understanding and practical than most religious minds are willing to accept. Do not feel, or allow others to pressure you. Take your time, respect your feelings, and when you're ready - God is with you. Truth, it sets us free.